diff --git a/commands.go b/commands.go
index 83078fc..c5b9374 100644
--- a/commands.go
+++ b/commands.go
@@ -56,6 +56,7 @@ func (br *DiscordBridge) RegisterCommands() {
 		cmdReconnect,
 		cmdDisconnect,
 		cmdSetRelay,
+		cmdUnsetRelay,
 		cmdGuilds,
 		cmdRejoinSpace,
 		cmdDeleteAllPortals,
@@ -465,6 +466,39 @@ func fnSetRelay(ce *WrappedCommandEvent) {
 	ce.Reply("Saved webhook %s (%s) as portal relay webhook", webhookMeta.Name, portal.RelayWebhookID)
 }
 
+var cmdUnsetRelay = &commands.FullHandler{
+	Func: wrapCommand(fnUnsetRelay),
+	Name: "unset-relay",
+	Help: commands.HelpMeta{
+		Section:     commands.HelpSectionUnclassified,
+		Description: "Disable the relay webhook and optionally delete it on Discord",
+		Args:        "[--delete]",
+	},
+	RequiresPortal:     true,
+	RequiresEventLevel: roomModerator,
+}
+
+func fnUnsetRelay(ce *WrappedCommandEvent) {
+	if ce.Portal.RelayWebhookID == "" {
+		ce.Reply("This portal doesn't have a relay webhook")
+		return
+	}
+	if len(ce.Args) > 0 && ce.Args[0] == "--delete" {
+		err := relayClient.WebhookDeleteWithToken(ce.Portal.RelayWebhookID, ce.Portal.RelayWebhookSecret)
+		if err != nil {
+			ce.Reply("Failed to delete webhook: %v", err)
+			return
+		} else {
+			ce.Reply("Successfully deleted webhook")
+		}
+	} else {
+		ce.Reply("Relay webhook disabled")
+	}
+	ce.Portal.RelayWebhookID = ""
+	ce.Portal.RelayWebhookSecret = ""
+	ce.Portal.Update()
+}
+
 var cmdGuilds = &commands.FullHandler{
 	Func:    wrapCommand(fnGuilds),
 	Name:    "guilds",
diff --git a/go.mod b/go.mod
index 4fdf42f..5f0ce91 100644
--- a/go.mod
+++ b/go.mod
@@ -37,4 +37,4 @@ require (
 	maunium.net/go/mauflag v1.0.0 // indirect
 )
 
-replace github.com/bwmarrin/discordgo => github.com/beeper/discordgo v0.0.0-20230227224009-daaee0136f88
+replace github.com/bwmarrin/discordgo => github.com/beeper/discordgo v0.0.0-20230301183055-25031a2e2461
diff --git a/go.sum b/go.sum
index daee64f..3216dd3 100644
--- a/go.sum
+++ b/go.sum
@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 github.com/DATA-DOG/go-sqlmock v1.5.0 h1:Shsta01QNfFxHCfpW6YH2STWB0MudeXXEWMr20OEh60=
-github.com/beeper/discordgo v0.0.0-20230227224009-daaee0136f88 h1:sZUZP+ClkQk1uC0KB6dYJ+v6Ygao3RaPKp/3leRjYik=
-github.com/beeper/discordgo v0.0.0-20230227224009-daaee0136f88/go.mod h1:NJZpH+1AfhIcyQsPeuBKsUtYrRnjkyu0kIVMCHkZtRY=
+github.com/beeper/discordgo v0.0.0-20230301183055-25031a2e2461 h1:NYwJRLsgc22WsKB16uxUx2xbB+3AtbH0QuttVSCGe+4=
+github.com/beeper/discordgo v0.0.0-20230301183055-25031a2e2461/go.mod h1:NJZpH+1AfhIcyQsPeuBKsUtYrRnjkyu0kIVMCHkZtRY=
 github.com/coreos/go-systemd/v22 v22.3.3-0.20220203105225-a9a7ef127534 h1:rtAn27wIbmOGUs7RIbVgPEjb31ehTVniDwPGXyMxm5U=
 github.com/coreos/go-systemd/v22 v22.3.3-0.20220203105225-a9a7ef127534/go.mod h1:Y58oyj3AT4RCenI/lSvhwexgC+NSVTIJ3seZv2GcEnc=
 github.com/davecgh/go-spew v1.1.0/go.mod h1:J7Y8YcW2NihsgmVo/mv3lAwl/skON4iLHjSsI+c5H38=